The Mel Robbins Podcast How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Feeling Guilty
Podcast Episode | 76 min | Talk-Show

The Mel Robbins Podcast

How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Feeling Guilty

Podcast Episode | 76 min | Talk-Show

Jay is joined on stage at Boston's Wang Theatre by his longtime friend Mel Robbins, in front of a packed live audience. Their shared history allows them to speak openly and honestly about the pressure to be liked, the fear of being ...See moreJay is joined on stage at Boston's Wang Theatre by his longtime friend Mel Robbins, in front of a packed live audience. Their shared history allows them to speak openly and honestly about the pressure to be liked, the fear of being misunderstood, and how easily we lose ourselves trying to meet other people's expectations. Mel's superpower is her ability to choose herself in moments when giving up or staying small feels safer. Mel shares the hard truths she's learned about self-criticism, people-pleasing, and why waiting to feel "ready" keeps us stuck. Jay reflects on how constantly judging and fixing ourselves pulls us away from our inner life, and why real growth starts with awareness and self-respect. Mel also talks about how many of her biggest changes came from desperation, not confidence, and Jay reframes jealousy, fear, and failure as signs that something meaningful is trying to emerge. In this pod, you'll learn: How to Stop Letting Other People's Opinions Run Your Life How to Quiet Your Inner Critic When Stress Takes Over How to Unlearn the Self-Criticism You Were Taught Growing Up How to Stop Waiting to Feel "Ready" to Start Living Your Life How to Break the Habit of People-Pleasing Without Guilt How to Use Jealousy as a Clue Instead of a Curse How to Keep Going When Desperation, Not Confidence, Is Driving You. See less